"Love is purity. It gives a state of blissfulness If you are your own self than the love true But if you are pretending to be someone else than maybe it's false. If it going perfectly fine even without making extra efforts than it is true But If you are making extra efforts all the time, then maybe it is false. If it's encouraging you to grow more Then it's true for sure. But If it's stopping your own freedom, your own success Then definitely it's false. If it only gives and demands less Then it's true But If all the time it only demands Then maybe it's false. If it's having a lot more possessiveness Then it's false But if has love, trust and believe Then definitely, it's true If your love gives you more respect than love It's true But if it gives love and little respect Then maybe it's false. If you can breathe freely with your love then it is true But If you feel suffocated with your love Then maybe it is false If it has understandings even if you lie or hide something Then it's true If it don't have an understanding Then maybe it is false. If it accepts you for what you are Then It's definitely true But if it wants to change you Than its false for sure. Leave it if it's all about suffering and pain Maybe you are thinking it's love But it's opposite of love If you are no more yourself, If you are killing all your desires If deep inside you know you are not happy And you forget your own true self Then how can it be love? Definitely, it will be much difficult for you to leave your love. But why settle for less? Why to always compromise? Why not wait until you find the best? Why not move on? How can you love others when you forget to love yourself? Why to always fall in love? When you can rise in love. ISHA GUPTA"