"Relationships should be mutually symbiotic like that of a blue-green algae where both benefit from living with each other and derive essential nutrients from one another in order to grow. Not parasitic relationships like between a dodder and host tree wherein the pale yellow dodder sucks all the essential nutrients from the host tree causing it to wither it's leaves and die eventually while dodder itself thrives, flourishes, become green. ©Divya Thakur "